Still Single? Have You Tried This?!

If you were on a fishing trip where there are 10 small ponds and spent a whole day fishing in one pond with no catch, would you:

A) Show up at the same pond tommorow

B) Give up pack your bags and head back home

C) Try one of the other 9 ponds

E) Set up a seperate fishing pole at each of the 10 ponds

You are about to find out why choosing (E) will change your whole Christian dating future!

If you are really serious about meeting another single Christian for friendship and more as the Lord leads then you may want to evaluate your current self-promotion methods.

Some people only create one single dating profile, or worse yet rely only on Facebook or Myspace in hopes a fish will come nibble and say hello.

Back to the self-promotion - every great marketer knows that if you have a product to market your first goal is to define your target audience and find out where the hungry audience hangs out and feed them want they are craving.

It's reasonable to assume that if a man or woman has joined a Christian dating site that they are:

A) most likely Christian or at least desire to become one

B) "hungry" to meet other single Christians as they have paid a small monthly membership fee

C) YOUR target audience (when your promoting yourself)

Back to the (10) fishing ponds...

Consider Sandy and Stephanie...

In just a week or two Sandy has:

Created FREE profiles at the Top #3 Christian Dating Sites (where the "hungry" fish are)

1) Created a free profile on Facebook

2) Created a free profile on Myspace

3) Created a free blog at Blogger.com to share her daily world

4) Makes creative videos about herself and posts them on Youtube for free and then embeds them in her blog which makes her seem more real and not just an online somebody

5) Created a free profile on hi5.com

6) Posts a personal ad for free on Craigslist.com

7) Actively and consistently participates in Christian singles forums and groups on Myspace & Facebook

So Sandy has her "fishing pole" in 10 different Christian Dating ponds. The most active hungry fish are in the first pond at the Top #3 Christian Dating sites, but the awesome thing is that since Sandy's profile is basically on auto-pilot at those sites - she is free to spend her time blogging about who she is and what she did today. So then when the right Mr. Fish comes to any one of Sandy's profile poles or ads they can see her blog address (*sandysblog*.blogspot.com ) and Mr. Fish will be able to learn a lot about Sandy and likely feel more comfortable in breaking the ice. (Unless they are ice fishing-ha ha).

Hey, we forgot about Stephanie...

Well Stephanie only has a Facebook profile and is waiting, and waiting, and waiting, wondering why God hasn't sent Mr. Fish to her profile.

There was a very good reason why Jesus had 12 disciples rather than just trying to reach the world all by himself. While Jesus was healing the sick, His work was being carried out by 12 others.

If you really want to increase your success rate in catching Mr. or Mrs. Fish, do what Sandy did and set up poles at all the major ponds where the hungry Single Christian Fish are waiting - starting with the Top #3 Christian Dating Sites.